Even after my husband died, there were times my mind would almost act as if he were back. There were moments when I’d think, 'I can’t wait to tell Lincoln about this!' And then, I’… See more

In the days after my husband died, some people sent cards. Others delivered food to my house. And lots of people spent time with me. It was such a relief to be surrounde… See more

It’s really tough to sit with someone when they’re in emotional pain. So it’s not surprising that a lot of people tried to cheer me up with jokes or by offering a ‘silver lining’ to m… See more

And, of course, the list of practical things I had to get doneafter my husband died didn’t end with the funeral. I had to decide what to sell (like Lincoln’s car), send death certificates … See more

The mental health agency where I worked as a therapist granted me three days of bereavement time. Sadly, that’s more than some people get when they lose a loved one. Clearl… See more